Annoyance Rant: When You're Talking to Someone and they Walk Away
Usually i am a patient, calm and accepting person. BUT, When it gets down to someone RUDELY walking away as your talking, I immidiately fly off the handle.
No matter who, no matter when, and no matter why, IT'S RUDE. I just can't handle when someone intrudes or exits the conversation in the middle of your talking. To me, it's the rudest thing you could do to someone, especially when I am talking directly to them. Whenever someone does this to me, I wish I could just storm up from behind them and say "What is your issue?" in the loudest tone possible. Since I am...usually...even tempered, I wouldn't need to do that, but of course I would want to. Even if people don't have the intention of being rude, they did it any way, so why not come up and confront them about it? Though my motto for everything is to just "ignore it" and not waist any time or effort on it, I believe that for this situation, I would pay to use up the time to come face to face and tell them how I really feel.
I just wish that people weren't so rude all of the time! If they all just considered that there is other people in the world, other than just themselves, they might actually realize this! As I said before, I am not usually an angry person but I cannot accept that behavior when I am speaking (though I sound like a teacher, Its what I really mean). I would hope that everyone realizes their mistakes because I may have done this before. However, if I realized my mistake, I put an effort in it to fix it so it never happens again.
Having a conversation with someone is an imporant life and social skill. When people treat it and the people talking with utter disrespect, they should realize it is rude and nip-it-in-the-back-end. When they realize the issue they can fix it so they can grow efficiently as a person and as a socializer. I respect others and their mistakes, but all they need to do it FIX IT!
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danielle,
ReplyDeletei have to agree completly with you! i hate when people do that! its like they have no respect! you can be looking at them in the eye and they just walk away as if you were talkting to yourself! people have to get some respect! i too want to yell at the person and flip popput on them!!
I second that too, Danielle! It's rediculous that people are in their right minds and still think it is okay to up and leave, like your talking to yourselfe as Dana said, or the wall!
ReplyDeleteI really like how you wrote and worded it. :)